Failure To Launch
Whole Families Intervention and Holistic Recovery Holistic Recovery Coaching Services helps your loved one work through their failure to launch syndrome with compassion, dignity and respect.
FAILURE TO LAUNCH OFTEN COINCIDES WITH ADDICTION
Failure to Launch Can Hijack Families
Do you have a child who is experiencing failure to launch? If so, you’ve come to the right place.
Failure to launch is a syndrome. It is not a diagnosis. When your child is addicted to drugs, alcohol, or has an eating disorder, it can be challenging to discern how to parent them. At the same time, you may not be caring for yourself. Adult children who are seemingly incapable of being self-supporting can hijack a family. They can be very savvy at manipulating those around them to take care of all of their needs.
Indicators of Failure to Launch
Do you have any grown children living at home?
Are you paying for their living expenses?
- Credit Cards
- Health Insurance
- Car Payments
- Medical Bills
- Legal Expenses
Does your loved one lack motivation and follow through?
Is your loved one generally depressed?
Does she expect you to take care of her needs?
Is gaming an addiction?
Has your loved one been to treatment, jail, sober housing and relapsed? More than once?
With failure to launch households, parents can find themselves fulfilling every need of their loved one. Seemingly, these parents believe it’s necessary in order to create peace in the household. This belief and behavior is called “co-dependency“. With co-dependency, everyone in the relationship has come to believe that they can’t survive without this learned behavior.
Co-dependent and enabling behavior keeps everyone stuck in their illness. Fear keeps everyone stuck. The result is that no one feels successful. And everyone is exhausted, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
With recovery coaching, we create a shift so your child can take the next right step toward becoming an adult. We provide you and your loved one with tangible, manageable tools to help each of you discern the next right step toward healing and wholeness. And we give you the space and guidance to get on with your own life.